You receive what you put out into the world

 A Legacy of Love


My mom is the greatest woman I know. Her love and support have always been a constant in my life, but it's her unwavering honesty that has truly shaped me. She taught me to choose wisely and to be accountable for my actions, often saying, "You receive what you put out into the world." This simple truth has guided my every decision.

This commitment to integrity is what makes her so remarkable. She handles the ugly parts of the world and the bad in people with a rare and beautiful grace. As Proverbs 31:25 says, "She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come." She doesn't let darkness dim her light; instead, she meets it with pure love.
My goal in life has always been to be just like her. I want to create with my own children the same kind of bond I have with my mom: a relationship built on open honesty, unwavering trust, unconditional love, and complete acceptance. I'm proud to say I'm doing a good job. Reflecting on my relationship with my two youngest children, I know I've come a long way as a woman and a mother.

A Mother's Blessing


I practice open honesty with my kids by truly listening to them and answering their questions with truth, no matter how difficult. As a result, they come to me with everything. They know they can be vulnerable and feel their feelings safely with me, and that is a true blessing.
Right now, we're all navigating a big change together—our move to Oregon. The fact that my children trust me enough to leave everything they've ever known and are genuinely happy with the decision is the biggest validation I could ever receive as a mother. It proves our bond is strong and our trust is unwavering. As Isaiah 49:15-16 says, "Can a mother forget the baby at her breast...though she may forget, I will not forget you!" I am so completely proud of the relationship I have with my kids.

The Unveiled Mother 🌛 




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